Last Thursday, I made a very long post about this latest trending chismis about Elise and McCoy.
Nabasa mo ba yun ?
Marami ang nalungkot.
May ilang mga di makapaniwala.
Tapos may ibang nagmura.
Pero what I'm surprised with was...
Yung isang side ng story na... dahil daw kasi sa family ni Elise na matapobre.
Now I don't know them.
Not even a fan of them.
But I don't really buy that kind of reasoning.
Alam mo kung bakit?
Kasi kung mahal ka ng isang lalaki, dapat ready na syang harapin lahat ng advantages and consequences of being with you.
Hindi yung idadahilan mo ang parents na alam mong sa una pa lang ay strict na talaga para sabihing di mo na kaya.
And I understand that this case is really common.
Even inside marriage, maraming husbands and wives ang nagkakatampuhan dahil sa in-laws.
May mga di pa rin kasi talaga nakaka intindi sa reality ng leave and cleave.
Mapa babae man or lalaki, maraming need intindihin sa very basic na principle na to.
Kahit ako nga I was rebuked by this principle.
If di mo kasi alam, kagaya ni Elise, my son was also born out of wedlock.
And now that I'm counseling couples married man or hindi...
Hindi lang ang masasabi ko.
Napakalaking influence ng in-laws mo sa marriage mo.
Life would be full of misery kung dependent pa ang in-laws mo sa husband mo.
Now I'm not sure about you...
Pero I'm wondering...
Are you having great relationship with your in-laws?
Anong bangungot ang meron ka or nalampasan mo na with them?
Let me know by replying to this email.
Just wanna hear your story. :)
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
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