Hi ,
The last email, I told you about the eye-opening email you need to wait. Problem is, naging busy ako so di ako nakapag update agad through email.
Now this is a scary stuff…
Kasi just like sa relationship, there are a lot of betrayed spouses who are in a battle of waiting while healing. Naghihintay kung kelan magbabago ang husand. And sa pagpapaka busy para na rin makalimot, di na nakakapag focus sa inner war nila. Pa simpleng takas na lang din ang ginagawa sa pagharap sa problema.
Yung kahit nalulunod na sa self-trust issues out of triggers from husband’s actions after they gave second chances, deadma na lang muna. And sometimes, they don’t even realize how much they have these inner battles. In some cases, they’re aware of it, but they don’t realize how serious it is.
But I tell you what… just because your slightest triggers aren’t impacting you in a major way today doesn’t mean it won’t become a serious problem tomorrow.
Point is, overcoming the traumatic memories today will give immediate benefits and/or prevent major trauma in the future.
For example, having clarity whether you need to still give him a chance, to leave or stay long-term will give you more peace of mind for a lifetime.
Another example: fixing a poor mindset to self-restoration and healing as a whole family will prevent self-pity and keep you bounce back.
So that brings us to the next point:
Do YOU have this problems affecting your peace?
To find out, answer the following questions:
1. Are you still having questions whether why he cheated on you?
2. Natututala ka na lang ba minsan at napapabayaan mo na ang sarili mo?
3. Wala ka na bang ganang kumain or… nagiging pabaya ka na sa kinakain mo?
4. Are you having problems handling your kids at home due to mixed emotions?
5. Do you ever blame yourself why it happened?
6. Are you comparing yourself to the Other Woman?
7. Are you tired of pleasing him and his family while feeling like being treated as trash?
8. Pagod ka na rin bang mag isip kung paano maayos ang family mo while not seeing any hope for your husband’s apology?
9. Pa ulit2x na lang ba ng panloloko nya?
10. Feeling like everyone is hating you and blaming you for what happened?
If you answered “yes” to at least 3 of the above questions, then you’re at risk for depression and anxiety triggers that would kill your sanity in the near future.
The good news is that it IS possible to end all of these inner issues na meron ka.
Use these 3 tips as a good place to start:
1. Seek help and be with the right group people
I’ve mentioned this many times anywhere. Mapa live man, written format or even with my friends and family.
If narinig mo ang linyang,
“Birds of the same feathers, flock together.” …
It has a basis.
Kasi nga if you noticed, hurt people attract or hurt other people or families as well.
And this is also why your hurt husband was attracted to or… attracted the Kabit having low self-esteem or… kabit na nakulangan or uhaw din sa pagmamahal.
And because they felt like they completed each other, nag sama na sila para labanan ka.
Meaning, need mo rin ng tamang tao na mag guide sayo moving forward na magiging kasama mo sa laban.
Mga taong hindi revenge ang nasa isip kundi ang long-term sanity, peace and development mo.
And that’s why I always tell my students na aside from our Virtual Family, importante lalo na sa healing journey nila na di sila sumama or makipag mingle sa mga toxic or may negative mindset na ka trabaho or family member.
Kasi all the more they’ll be affected mentally.
2. Plan your future and take action
It’s important na pagplanuhan mo ang future mo.
Now this 2023 is a year of promises for you.
All you need to do is take action and grab every opportunity to level up.
So all you need is to sow your seed on the solid and fertile ground para mas mamunga ka.
Wag mong panghinayangan ang isang bagay na makaka tulong hindi lang para sayo pero para sa future ng mga anak mo.
Kaya if may opportunity na dumating galing kay LORD, sunggaban mo na agad.
3. Join our Godly Builders Membership as an early bird.
I know how important it is to have the right group of people with the mindset aligned to God’s principles.
And that’s why I founded the Godly Builders Family.
Now I’m telling you the good news!
We’re officially launching the Batch 1 of the Godly Builders Membership this January!
By 2023 onwards, we’re going to incorporate our HAC Program Version 2.0, a self-restoration or self-healing course into our Godly Builders Family as a form of yearly membership per batch.
It’s for the Virtual Fam to help you on an intimate level and for you to maximize your yearly membership too. Meaning, we’ll only offer the membership during enrollment.
How much would this cost FJ?
Now the Godly Builders Membership Batch 1 is at an introductory price of Php 9,997.00
But I’m giving away an Early Bird Advantage for only Php 6, 997.00 to all our email subscribers who would enroll for Batch 1 on or before January 1, 2023 until 7pm only.
To enroll for this Early Bird Discount, you need to pay through Gcash or deposit to our BPI account with these following details:
GCASH:
Acct. Number: 0927-852-1389
BPI:
Account Name: Ferlyn Joy Lapera
Bank of the Philippine Island Savings Account Number: 1839 4982 05
Just email the proof of payment to [email protected]
>>>Don’t forget to Include Subject on Email: "HAC Program PAYMENT"
>>>Send an SMS TXT to +63-976-026-1048 to inform us of your deposit amount.
Don't forget, early bird advantage is only until January 1, 2023 at 7pm.
Whether you join this Batch 1 or not, I still pray for your clarity, peace and development next year onwards.
Cheers to leveling up with you this 2023!
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
P.S. Next time you’re going to join our Godly Builders Membership, you’ll no longer take advantage of this Batch 1 Early Bird Assistance. Kaya para di mo ma miss ang opportunity na to, take action now and do what’s best for your sanity starting 2023. See you inside! ^_^
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