FJ by FJ Lapera

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Why Julia can't trust his father Dennis

Sana wag ganito anak mo

“Hindi ko ipagkakait ang forgiveness but I'm just not ready. There's just been so much pain over the years since I was young, so parang I got tired of the same thing."



“It’s not difficult for us to forgive, but it’s difficult to really just… It’s not the forgiveness, it’s to forget. But there's just a lot of fear because I don’t know what’s gonna happen. But forgiveness, of course, definitely, that’s for my own peace of mind, di ba?”



“You know, I kinda just want to huminga lang muna from that cycle. And, you know, I've just been praying also na, I don’t know, maybe in God's time and way na, you know, mag-meet kami in the middle without having to get hurt again."



Mga linya ni Julia 2 weeks ago when she was interviewed that broke the internet.


Maraming nag bash sa kanya.


While marami naman ang still inintindi sya dahil di raw nya kasalanan.


Di raw maganda ang pagpapalaki ng Nanay nya sa kanya.


She's a brat, sabi pa ng iba.


She's raised by a gold digger mom kasi...


At marami pa.


Honestly...


Ng marinig ko ang news, nahabag ako both kay Julia at sa Mama nya.


And honestly... naiintindihan ko rin where Dennis is coming from.


Truth is all of them have their own share of pain.


Lahat.


Buong family nila may own fair share of trauma that led to years and decades of family feud.


And alam mo ano ang mas masaklap?


It may last more decades pa.


So just imagine yourself on Gretchen's shoes right now.


And imagine anak mo si Julia.


Imagine kung hanggang ilang dekada, marami ka pa ring trust issues.


Last night, we had our Live Therapy.


If you missed it, here's the replay.


Last night, I shared to you how to be a ruby.


How to be a ruby with confidence and without trust issues.


Now I believe Julia and her mom are both rubies.


The problem is... the opposite is magnified because of their character on social media.


And I believe, they can be their better version after all the trauma if they choose to.


Parang ikaw.


That's why if you want to be a better Ruby, check our HAC Program Version 2.0 and learn how to avoid decade of trust issues here.




To your peace and joy,

FJ Lapera


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