I saw this news just today. It's about this Depressed Cheated Woman's dilemma after a verbal agreement with her estranged husband.
After reading more about her story, I felt sad.
I'm talking about Maggie Wilson, a former beauty queen married to the Billionaire Victor Consunji who filed an Adultery case to her with her alleged third party, Tim Connor, na common friend din nila ng husband nya.
According sa mga articles na nabasa ko, naghiwalay na raw sila ni Victor last 2021 pa and... may infidelity issue raw si Victor that time.
And here comes Maggie, trying to have a life after everything that happened.
Siguro she's trying to move on na pero dumating sa point na ang husband nya ay may kung anong emotional battle kaya naisipan na kasuhan sya.
And according sa records, he filed for the case last June 30 about adultery.
As I analyze their case, I can see both parties having problems here.
It reminds me of a few students of mine who shared to me how they had suitors after the betrayal.
Yung isang student ko, talagang willing pang suntukin ng prospect na manliligaw ang husband nya para raw maturuan ng leksyon sa harap harapang panloloko sa kanya.
While yung isa naman, nanligaw sa kanya at may secret na asawa't anak na rin pala.
I clearly told the 1st to guard her heart.
Nagtanong kasi sya sa akin if okay lang ba na mag act sila na paselosin ang husband nya kasi willing daw yung lalaki to help her.
I clearly told her my BIG NO.
Yung second naman, good thing she's constant with her covenant kay Lord kaya ngayon sila na ulit ng husband nya after sya iniwan.
Mind you, husband nya ang naghabol sa kanya and good thing she accepted him sa perfect time na buong buo na sya ulit.
It actually took a year bago nahimasmasan ang husband nya.
Si Lord mismo ang nag expose ng baho ng kabit kaya iniwan na totally ng husband nya.
God made ways for her marriage to be restored.
And it's all because she had the constant guide and supportive virtual family aside sa family by blood sa mga panahong gusto na rin nyang sumuko at makipag relasyon sa iba.
Which brings me to my next point…
Before engaging in any other relationship after your husband's betrayal... lalo na kung kasal pa talaga kayo…
...please ayusin mo muna ang personal issues mo... legalities man or personal healing para hindi mag backfire sayo at mag backfire pa sayo ang ginawa ng husband mo.
You must ensure that you're 100% negative of ANY VIRUS.
What do I mean?
Dapat walang baho na pwedeng ibato sayo.
Sa case ni Maggie, kahit saang anggulo tingnan, it's never legal and it's not morally beautiful to see her intimate photos with another man... while showing off her skin pa... just shortly after announcing their separation.
Yes, you have all the right na maging masaya after betrayal.
But I hope wag yung careless na saya.
Much worse is... thinking about revenge para maramdaman din nila na hindi lang ikaw ang nagdurusa.
Fact is, people can smell from 12 feet if you’re trying to fake your happiness.
Or if you're also full of lapses as a woman inside your marriage.
A wrong phrase here and there could destroy your credibility…
And destroy your reputation as a woman.
You see...
These “viruses” inside your family, his family, your circle of friends or worst... even from strangers are everywhere and ready to judge the very core of your soul.
Ever met a family or friend who…
- Blames you for keeping your husband's dark secret for so long?
- Feels annoyed sa pa ulit2x mong pag share ng problem mo?
- Tells you to do things which you feel like not doing?
- Compares you sa mga asawang mabilis naka move on?
- Gets angry at you and calls you big words for your crazy actions after his betrayal?
Just to prove na toxic ka?
How heartless.
Bottom line is hindi kailangan na gawin mo mag isa or hayaan mong walang nakaka intindi sayo deeper or kumakampi sayo sa healing journey mo.
Truth is, only people who had been on "your shoes" will genuinely understand your pain, frustrations and... inner war.
The single biggest way you can feel not alone is to be with the family of fellow believers na naniniwala sa worth and capacity mo bilang isang babae.
You have to know how to raise your value para taas noo mo ipaglalaban ng tama without any deadly weapon ang kung ano ang nararapat sayo.
I talk about this in detail inside my HAC Program that includes your 1 year access to the Godly Builders Membership.
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
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