Not many understand this greatest truth...
But in Healing After Cheating, there’s a big difference between trust and forgiveness.
When you're betrayed, it means mahihirapan ka magpatawad kasi nawalan ka ng trust.
We always hear people say, “Madaling magpatawad pero mahirap mag TRUST ulit.”
And this is true.
Fact is, you need to redeem your self-confidence para mas maging madali ang pagpapatawad. Pero pagdating sa TRUST, he needs to earn it from you.
That’s why you need to have clarity on both.
And I've got both. :)
In this email, I'll share the key decisions I've made to make the 1st one happen.
First Decision: Invest 80% of my savings in self-development.
In 2019, while at the peak of my emotional breakdown, I joined "Internet Business Masterclass.”
This is an eBook making program where they teach you the step-by-step guide on how to make your own eBook and show you how to have the business of helping people.
The program cost $620 sa panahon na yun. But I had to pay almost P32,000 because I chose the split payment option (2 payments of P15,000+).
Each time I was charged P15K+ (on credit card), sobrang bigat for me.
At that time, it was the most expensive program I bought.
After that and in the same year, I bought some other courses like P16k, P8k, and P5k courses.
When I paid P32,000, I had no choice but to make it work.
Otherwise, I would've wasted my savings for nothing.
And it did.
It pushed me to apply what I learned and kagaya nga ng lagi kong sinasabing story, I have already almost finished the 1st eBook when God called me to choose to write an eBook for Depressed Cheated Women instead, write my story and inspire women like I was.
Thanks to my investment, I got my dream of being an author and fortunately, I got the most important lesson from that online course.
Coz accidentally, it helped me change the way I viewed my dilemma.
May pa BONUS pa that God helped me heal more through my study of looking for solutions.
This position led me to my second key decision.
Second Decision: Looked for an upgrade in my Healing After Cheating program (Invested on relationship counseling coz I knew I need to take action and understand psychology)
Back in early of 2021, I was still struggling to tone down my triggers most especially when I’m moved by my students’ situation.
I knew I needed to level up our HAC Program.
So I need to spend money on another course I’m really interested in.
It was a risk. A huge one.
Lalo na we’re financially battling that year due to the remnants of pandemic at… nagpa alam na rin ako sa DTI.
But I had to make it work because they looked up to me.
And I need to make my investments work too.
In late 2021, it paid off because I got to understand deeper concepts that I even only knew happened in my relationship pala.
I got life-changing realizations.
I was more enlightened and it even helped me level up my relationship in standing for truth.
Third Decision: Attracted my family’s confidence in me...
I became even more confident in looking for solutions sa kahit anong relationship problem na dumating sa akin, sa mga kapatid ko and even with my relatives — I can confidently say I’ve counseled them and helped them resolve our brokenness with the extended family.
That's what I experienced.
And it attracted my significant other to really even respect what I do even despite my choice of avoiding premarital sex. It’s because even if he may be placed in a bad position in other’s eyes, he knows I love what I do and am pushing myself for growth while helping others.
I knew this was the motivation I needed to push even harder.
Seeing him silently supporting my passion back then.
So what are the lessons you can pick up here?
#1 - In terms of Healing After Cheating, you get what you paid for (most of the time).
I didn't level up watching and listening to YouTube videos or reading blogs.
I grew when I invested in quality programs related to my business of helping people as well as investment in my healing.
That's why until now, I never want to stop my growth. I’m even investing in another one before the year ends.
#2 - Bet on yourself. No one else will.
Every breakthrough I experienced only happened after I took a huge risk.
If you ask successful women, they will tell you the same.
#3 - An investment in yourself pays the highest dividends.
The programs didn't change me. I transformed myself to make sure I could use the programs.
I went from lazy to disciplined.
From being confused to having “wisdom.”
From "trying things out" to obsessively pursuing excellence in everything I do.
If I was lazy and not totally committed, I would never improve...even if the best Psychologists trained me.
These are the things I always say whenever someone asks me "Is the HAC Masterclass for me?"
Look...
I’ve made sure this is the BEST program in the Philippines.
You get feedback, support, and even guidance even after you fix your inner wounds and experience a healthier relationship.
But...
You won't go anywhere unless you follow the program.
You must do your weekly tasks, and consume the lessons.
You won't grow simply because you joined.
If you're always there asking questions, staying active, and being present...
I have no doubt you'll get better, grow yourself faster, and get to your goals quicker.
So...
Is this for you?
Well...
If you've always wanted to steal back your inner power in your relationship and be one of the most empowered women in the Philippines...
Gain world-class counseling tips that can rival mentees who live in English-speaking countries...
Be a hundred steps closer to the results you've always wanted...
And you're willing to get TRAINED by me who have suffered triggers even if I did my best to be the most understanding and kindest woman on the planet...
==> The HAC Masterclass was built for you.
Invest in yourself today.
Don't forget to use this exclusive code as Playbook Bundle buyer to get your special discount upon checkout: iamhealed3k
See you inside.
To Helping You Heal,
FJ Lapera
P.S. Fast Action Bonus #2 is only until tomorrow.
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