Last Thursday, I wrote a long post about this not news.
Did you read it ?
Marami ang nalungkot.
May ilang mga di makapaniwala.
Tapos may mga nagalit.
Pero what surprised me is this:
Matapobre raw kasi ang parents ni Girl.
Now I don't know them.
Not even a fan of them.
But I don't really buy that kind of reasoning.
Alam mo kung bakit?
Kasi kung mahal ka ng isang lalaki, dapat ready na syang harapin lahat ng advantages and consequences of being with you.
Hindi yung idadahilan nya ang parents mo na alam naman nyang sa una pa lang ay strict na talaga dahil rin sa pagmamahal sayo.
And I understand that this case really happens a lot in society nowadays.
Even inside marriage, maraming husbands and wives ang nagkakatampuhan dahil sa in-laws.
May mga di pa rin kasi talaga nakaka intindi sa reality ng leave and cleave.
Marami kasing need intindihin na basic principles from this alone.
Kahit ako nga I was rebuked by it many times.
If di mo kasi alam, my son was also born out of wedlock.
And now that I'm counseling mostly married women...
Isa lang ang masasabi ko.
Yes, napakalaking influence ng in-laws sa relationship.
And life would be full of hell kung dependent ang in-laws mo sa husband mo.
So I'm not sure about you if you had experienced any traumatic moment with your in-laws.
That's why I'm wondering...
How's your relationship with your in-laws?
And anong bangungot ang meron ka or nalampasan mo na with them?
Let me know by replying to this email.
Just wanna hear your story. :)
To your peace and joy,
FJ "Nakiki Chismis Lang" Lapera
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