Have you watched the recent story of that Depressed Cheated Mom na ni live selling ang mga gamit ng husband nya ?
I'm writing to you now because I want you to learn from her story.
As a THM student, siguro alam mong may iba't ibang affair types.
And I guess mataas na ang emotional connection ni Kabit kay Husband nya since she mentioned na 3x na raw syang iniwan at 3x na rin nyang pinatawad.
Take note, same KABIT lamang.
Tumatak sa akin ang fact na sa 3rd time ay na hospitalized pa sya.
I guess that's because of too much depression na.
Nagmaka awa pa raw sya sa 3rd time.
Now bilang THM student, ayokong dumating ka sa point na mag makaawa para mag stay ang husband mo.
I guess you knew based on our lesson na ang husband mo dapat ang mag prove na worth it sya para tanggapin mo ulit sa buhay mo and...
...need nya dumaan sa right apology process.
Hindi rin dapat too early ang apology nya para hindi rin hilaw ang pagpapatawad mo.
And need nyang makapasa sa Apology checkpoint para makapag proceed kayong 2 sa healing as a couple.
Now knowing a bit of her case, I want to give you out this very important reminder:
NEVER ever shame your husband most especially in public.
I guess you knew already that it takes two to tango.
Kaya I hope you don't blame everything sa husband mo.
And di na dumating sa point na mapahiya mo sya sa social media.
Remember to follow our Devotional Masterguide.
The best rebuke for maximum humility is God's rebuke through His words.
Shaming your husband in public would not only harm him but you as well.
Remember, what you do and say reflects who you are.
Don't get me wrong.
Doing live selling is remarkable lalo na para sa kids.
It's just that, throwing bad comments sa husband has the great possibility of affecting the kids' behavior.
I've heard from one of her interviews na smart ang panganay nya at nakaka intindi na.
Now what do you think is the psychological impact of her destroying their dad's image on social media growing up?
If you really want Healing After Cheating the Godly, Healthy and Sexy Way...
...you need undergo healing without disrespecting the father of your kids kahit feeling mo sobrang gago na nya at kahit di na nakakatuwa ginagawa nya.
Men value respect so much while women prioritizes affection more.
And today, I wanna give that mommy a hug and you too.
Alam kong you needed it too.
The real solution to our problem starts within you.
If he is not changing, then, YOU are changing. :)
Change happens to you while you're waiting for the change from him.
And tandaan mo to: Your attitude while waiting for the change in your relationship matters.
I'm wondering kung kamusta ka na.
We're moving to our 7th Pillar next Week and malapit ang graduation natin.
As I've mentioned, our graduation would be on May 4th na.
So how's your THM experience so far?
I wanna hear kung anong naitulong sayo ng THM so far for me to make assessments before we touch our 7th Pillar.
Reply to this email for me to hear you out.
Caring for you,
FJ Lapera
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