Hindi naman sa nanalo ka sa lotto, ‘no…
Pero parang ganun na rin!
Kasi I previously announced that I’m releasing a series of video lessons and a webinar na rin this May.
May konting changes lang sa date pero feeling winner ka pa rin dito sa latest INNER HEALING BLUEPRINT.
And... you’ll get to have a taste of it for FR.EE starting tonight.
I’ve got lots of responses from the last email alone, kaya naman tuloy na tuloy na talaga ‘to!
Kung sa lotto, maliit lang ang probability of winning…
Kung sa marriage at relationships, konti lang ang faithful and thriving till the end…
Dito sa sariling laban mo, you’ll always be a winner.
Personally, I feel like this blueprint comes very timely since ang dami na namang issues ng broken marriages, infidelity or cheating this season na nagsisilabasan online.
Pero dahil nga most marriages ngayon are experiencing TRUST ISSUES lalo na with the rise of social media na panay "heart" ang mahal nila sa sexy photos ng mga babaeng labas ang kaluluwa…
Yung iba, they THINK cheaters will always be cheaters na lang talaga or… they never be happy again after betrayal and never be enough kahit nagsarili na sila at wala na ang infidel sa buhay nila.
Feeling bitter or insecure and worst, can’t move out of the painful dilemma of comparison or...
...always thinking WHY everything happened and when will they be totally okay.
Now, while this isn’t 100% pinagdadaanan ng bawat niloko, ang totoo nyan is…
Kahit sabihin mong binalikan ka pa ng husband mo or… nagkabalikan kayo ulit or pinatawad mo or bumalik ka na lang muna para sa mga anak nyo…
…ang bigat pa din sa dibdib maalala kung bakit ka niloko even if feeling mo nakaka galaw2x ka naman na kahit papaano.
Lalo na kung araw2x mo pa rin sya nakikita at feeling mo minsan parang wala naman masyadong pinagbago.
So dun tayo sa kung anong mas manageable for every Depressed Cheated Woman— to work out on ourselves. Self-love ika nga ng karamihan sa atin.
A lot of betrayed wives (and I mean A LOT) have asked me in the past if pwede ba talaga magpatawad ng buo kahit di pa rin nagbabago ang husband nila.
At kung paano ba mag move forward kung feeling hopeless na sila sa pagbabago that they’ve always been praying.
Little back story lang, before I started helping women like I was, I discovered way back 2019 na nagka S.T.D. ako.
At sobrang gumuho ang mundo ko noon.
Honestly, I was not open to sharing about this in the public noon (ONLY to a few of my students lang) kasi nga nanliit ako sa sarili ko at…
…talagang NAKAKAHIYA!!!
Kahit di ko naman kasalanan na nahawa ako sa kanya, di ko pa rin halos matanggap. Saka, I’m still trying to protect his image after all.
Grabe na pagmamahal ano???
This disease to please was actually one of the biggest reasons why I was suicidal.
I was thinking, paano na kung level up pala ng sakit ang na acquire ko, ede, end of the world na ba?
Paano na ang anak ko?
Di na rin ba sya sasaya sa love life nya???
But all thanks so this so-called SELF-LOVE.
When I followed the Lord’s instruction of finally avoiding pre-marital sex (dahil nga di pa rin kami kasal after a decade)… despite the ups and downs and bloody clashes of beliefs from different camps, I grew so much in ALL areas of my life.
Yes, di lang ang faith ko kay Lord ang nag grow but my mindset, my confidence in myself and best… confidence about my future.
When I saw me and my son got better with how we handled our anger issues, trauma and fear, I got super passionate about learning more and helping more women like I was.
I realized, ang sarap pala magkaroon ng peace of mind kahit pa paulit ulit akong niloko after the chances I gave back then and… even after he finally married a single mom and threatened to kill me and my whole family for fighting my son’s custody.
But more than my inner confidence in moving forward alone…
I saw the HUGE potential of helping women like I was to also TRUST in themselves na kaya rin nila.
And that’s exactly the reason why I helped Depressed Cheated Women, cheered them and coached or counseled them as their Healing After Cheating Specialist.
When I did, my friends, family, church mates, and even STRANGERS started asking me for help with their own relationships.
But it wasn’t until I got clients from Pinays here in the Philippines and abroad, outside of my circle (even married couples way older in age than me) that I KNEW my God-given purpose is going to be BIG.
Hanggang sa pa until2x, I saw the transformation na nga sa mga students ko.
Yung iba nagkabalikan at naging mas stronger pa ang pagsasama nila.
Yung iba naman na suicidal na rin at yung isang tatalon na sa Condo nya noon ay nahimasmasan na at mas lalong gumanda ngayon inside and out.
Slowly, clients are seeking my help or I’m being referred online and offline and this business became my full time career aside from my printing business at church work as a leader where I became a Pulpit Minister too.
Fast forward today, I’ve founded the Godly Builders Fam, a community of women actively helping and cheering each other even when I had to hibernate dahil sa mga naging deadly battles ko.
Most importantly, I got the inner healing and peace that I wanted.
All because sa pag FOCUS ko sa kung ano ang kaya kong e control!
So to answer the most common question of “makakapag-patawad ba ng buo at mamahalin mo pa rin ba ang taong nanakit sayo or… can you TRUST again a cheater?”...
I can proudly say YES…
But if you’re wondering HOW I did it…
I suggest panoorin mo nalang ang brand new INNER HEALING BLUEPRINT.
Part 1 is where I’m finally making our RAFF Method public.
These are the subtle Forgiving Principles to Dump Hatred, Jealousy, Envy and Revenge to finally Attract Peace of Mind.
The link to the first lesson drops in a few hours.
See you there, .
To healing with you,
FJ “Nakalaya na” Lapera
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