You can't learn from someone you're jealous of .
What you need is inspiring association to learn.
You need to be present.
You need to be beside someone you want to learn from.
Let's say when Manny Pacquiao wanted to be successful in boxing, he needed the solid training.
He can't have the winning moves without taking action.
He needs to observe how to punch and he needs to be praised when he does the good one or corrected when he does the opposite.
He needs some inspiration.
If he's jealous of his coach, then, it would be hard to accept correction.
He would just say he's better.
Or worst, punch his coach to death.
This happened in the Bible.
Aaron, Miriam and Moses are siblings.
And Miriam and Aaron are silently jelous of Moses.
That's why when he was at the mountain 40 days, it was easier for them to lead the people serving another God even if they knew the truth about God's justice system.
They were swayed by pride and jealousy.
Many died from that weak leadership.
And even after that, Miriam had been leprous because again of jealousy and pride.
And that's the same with learning anything.
Even inside your marriage after betrayal.
You can't learn why and how betrayal happened if you're jealous with his Other Women.
All you need is a coach to tell remind you of your value in case you forgot it.
And learn from the kabit's ways and even from your husband to outwit them and show what you got.
Hindi yung iiyak iyak ka lang at magpapaka lunod sa triggers na pa ulit2x kumakatok sa ulo mo.
You need an inspiration from anyone who have conquered the jealousy, bitterness and emotional breakdown you're experiencing.
And you need to associate with that person.
Be beside that mentor.
Be coachable, humble and have listening ears.
That's what Joshua did.
He was Moses' mentee.
And he was the one who led Israel, God's people to the promise land.
Meaning, you can only receive the promise of blessings if may coachable attitude ka.
And... if you associate and learn humbly from someone you're inspired with.
That's why I encourage you to seek a mentor and learn from someone in all areas of your life.
Bawat area ng buhay mo, dapat may mentor ka.
Someone you look up to.
Kahit nga sa pag aalaga ng bata if first time mom ka, need mo ng mentor, like Nanay mo.
And please respect your mentor.
Kahit ako, may mentor ako within our local church.
As a church leader, I respect and learn from our pastor's life experiences.
She's a strong woman too.
And I love how she left everything to follow God's calling.
So seek a mentor.
Anyway, I'm planning to do a FREE intimate webinar for my Email Subscribers ONLY on Friday.
So you can also ask me any intimate questions about Healing After Cheating LIVE (wag lang yung below the belt ha) hehe
I'll do my best to give out practical answers to help you out.
No worries, libre lang to.
Pero limited lang ang slots.
Mga 100 pax lang siguro.
Paunahan na lang sa pagpasok.
I might be using Google Meet or Zoom kasi.
Para magka chance ako to see you live, get to know you and greet you. 😇
I'll also not sell you anything in this webinar. Lol
Just want to bless and intimately cheer my email subscribers before the year ends.
And don't worry, I won't publish the recording on social media. So safe ang moment mo with me.
Just to be clear, if you can't attend, you will miss this chance of intimate live chika with me.
Kasi I'm not sure if I can still do this live face to face sa hindi ko students.
That's why I'm wondering if you're interested picking up my brain on Friday.
And if you can, anong oras ang prefer mo?
A. 2:00 pm
B. 3:00 pm
C. 5:00 pm
D. 7:00 pm
E. 8:00 pm
F. 9:00 pm
Reply to this email for me to know your preferred schedule.
If I get at least 50 replies before Friday, I'll proceed with this FREE Webinar and intimate Q&A.
I'm waiting for your reply .
To your peace and joy,
FJ "Cheering you on" Lapera
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