FJ by FJ Lapera

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How to fail up this 2025

I guess nagtataka ka rin like her why I've been quiet with my updates sa FB Page and even sa emails regarding Healing After Cheating.


Kanina kasing 1am, I got a PM from one of our Godly Builders Fam.


She said..


Hi sis.. musta po kayo? Sis meron po ulit tayong fb live? Nakakamiss din ksi ung mga preach mo, helpfiul po sa amin mga verses na sinishare nio po s bwat live po.. 

God bless u always sis.❤️🙏



To this Godly Builder, I'm totally fine sis. And thank you for checking on me.


Honestly, I intentionally did it.


Why?


Straightforward answer... to PROTECT my son and... myself.

(Another story that I guess I'll just share LIVE next week to avoid blockbuster drama).


Yes, we'll finally be LIVE next week, Tuesday (April 10, 2025) via Zoom. To follow na lang ang Zoom details.


As I've mentioned sa GC, we'll still continue our LIVE Godly Builders Therapy now MONTHLY and I'll simply announce the schedule.

Listen.


If may mga problems ka mang pinagdadaanan ngayon, YOU ARE NOT ALONE.


Ever since I fought for our HAC Advocacy, I've been through a lot and I know you knew it.


I only thrived because I held into the clarity of my life's purpose as how God showed me.


And recently, I just felt like I needed to pause.


It's like when you feel like you have so much responsibility in your shoulders, talagang kailangan mo mag PAUSE and reassess your foundations.


Why you're doing what you're doing and...


Just simply breathe.


I'll never forget how these verses from Proverbs 3 lifted my spirit this morning...


13 Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding,


14 for she is more profitable than silver and yields better returns than gold.


15 She is more precious than rubies; nothing you desire can compare with her.


16 Long life is in her right hand; in her left hand are riches and honor.


17 Her ways are pleasant ways, and all her paths are peace.


18 She is a tree of life to those who take hold of her; those who hold her fast will be blessed.


Notice how WISDOM is compared to a WOMAN.


As a woman, you are so precious.


More precious than rubies kaya di mo need e question ang kinang mo whatever field of career you have, ang ganda mo and most importantly... and worth mo.


Kaya sis, it's NOT an accident na babae ka.


You have a GIFT TO PRODUCE.


Your hands are meant to be so productive kaya biblical na both hands mo may katumbas once you are working on it.


Natural sayo yun whether may anak ka man or wala.


Kasi born ka with this ability innate within you.


Kaya whatever problem na meron ka ngayon, malalampasan mo.


And remember what I told you before?


You don't need to fight all the time.


It won't make sense if you're fighting with a fool.


Mas mahalaga ba sayo ang ma validate na tama ka kesa magkaroon ng peace of mind?


Remember, your pleasant ways lead to your... PEACE OF MIND as written in this book of wisdom.


And notice what's mentioned in the last part of the verse I highlighted here?


Si WISDOM daw... is like a tree of life and as how I got the revelation this morning...


Kung mabilis ka mag take action, you'll be blessed.


In short, SPEED OF IMPLEMENTATION is the key sis.


Parang sa relationship lang yan while Healing After Cheating.


You need to implement kung ano yung akma sa case mo.


And DO IT NOW.


If you also needed a pause like mine...


Or if you're really feeling like fighting or ending something...


Or if you needed reconciliation...


So be it.


OWN your decision and our good Lord will be with you as long as what you do pleases Him.


Tandaan mo that with all the toxic issues not only in your life but with our government this year, once everything you do is for His honor, you'll NEVER FAIL.


So if you want MORE WISDOM, let's meet via Zoom next Thursday.


And if you're still here with me, comment "WISER 2025" on this link.


This way, I know you're still committed to long life, riches and honor after experiencing betrayal.


See you in the comments!



To getting wiser with you,

FJ "Still here" Lapera








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