FJ by FJ Lapera

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Struggle is real

"Still struggling pa until now.


The more na para wala nang pag asa na mabalik pa ang dating relasyon kasi si husband na ang umaayaw sa akin. 🥲 


Hindi ko alam kong pakikitunguhan ko sya ng maayos o hindi na.


O ipapatulfo.


Hindi ko alam." 🥲🥲🥲



These exact words I read this morning from one of our email subscribers caught my attention.


You see...


I always tell members inside of the GB Fam lalo na in this 90 Days Godly Builders Therapy Challenge to BELIEVE and they will SEE.


But how can anyone believe for something they desire to happen if sila

mismo wala ng tiwala sa sarili nila?


This is the very reason why in our Healing After Cheating Membership Program,

I focus on shifting beliefs on how every Depressed Cheated Woman can believe

in themselves again.


Alam mo ...


If only you start believing in yourself and persevering in consistently

leveling yourself up...


Yung hindi lang physical changes sa buhay mo...


You would be a bigger blessing hindi lang para sa mga anak mo.


Pati na rin sa husband mo at lahat ng taong mahal mo.


How can you even attract your desire to happen if ikaw mismo

you're not attracting the change that you desire sa sarili mo?


Alam mo, my method to personal holistic healing is tested throughout the

century.


Simple lang.


Nothing special.


But it's the application and consistency that matters.


Kaya this Holy Week, I'm cheering you on to seeking personal growth.


And pinaka importante?


Growing under God's principles.


If you ever need to compare yourself, compare it to your yesterday.


Hindi sa kumare mo.


Hindi sa marriage ng mga taong nasa paligid mo.


Hindi sa feeling mo perfect families na nakikita mo sa social media.


When I started counseling since 2020, I thought to only change

women's perspective to Healing After Cheating.


Pero alam mo?


I realized that I changed a lot.


Those stories I hear everyday.


Mga email replies mo and messages...


Those deeper stories and struggles from the students...


Mga untold pain and kept secrets ng every cheated spouse...


Lahat yun naging BEST TEACHER ko.


Kaya learn from the experiences of others ahead of you.


It doesn't have to be from our Godly Builders Fam membership only.


Yes, you can rapidly grow through our personal healing course.


But you can always start learning through your own.


Simulan mo sa pag babasa ng BIBLE which I also pushed you to do already.


As the SSCW buyer or one who have invested to personal healing in the past...


Start from the book of John.


And that's the beginning.


And be consistent with your daily routine.


Well, 3 days from now, we'll reminisce how Jesus died on the cross for you.


Meaning, may nag iisang lalaking inalay ang buhay para sayo.


Di yun kayang gawin ng husband mo.


But the LORD, in the name of Jesus did it for you.


Kaya pahalagahan mo ang buhay mo.


Wag mong ibalot ng poot, insecurity and revenge.


Hindi pagpapa Tulfo ang sagot.


As what you might have heard...


The best revenge is for your enemies to see you level up.


And... even love them more because you have so much

love, understanding and compassion for them.


God bless you!





To your peace and joy,

FJ "Celebrating the Holy Week" Lapera



P.S. Anong plans mo for yourself and for your family

this Holy Week ?









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