A granny who recently caught my heart at school shared to me how she was raised by her aunt at age 10.
His father who's a pure Chinese got separated from her mother, and happened to die at an early age.
She shares beautiful things about her dad but when I asked about her memory from her mom, she couldn't say a word.
All she remembers is they separated and she saw her no more.
So when his father died, her aunt adopted her and she became their helper but at the same time, they also treated her as their daughter.
What saddened me most is her current situation.
Her only son died a year ago, she misses him so much and sya ngayon ang nag aalaga ng 4 nyang apo sa school where she stays the whole school hours.
Of course, her daughter-in-law would go to work to support them too.
Pero ngayon daw kasi is may bago ng boyfriend at feeling nya napapabayaan ng daughter-in-law nya ang mga bata.
Ang concern lang naman daw nya ay kung mahal nila ang isa't isa ay gawing legal ang pagsasama at di lang daw tikiman ang tema at mag astang dalaga.
Total, patay naman na daw ang anak nya.
Sa maraming beses naming nag usap ni lola, nabigla ako sa mga linyahan nya kahapon.
She told me na meron daw nagbigay sa kanya ng earrings (napanalunan daw nya) at dahil Adventist sya at di sya nagsusuot ng hikaw.
At dahil wala na raw silang bigas at naaawa sya sa mga apo nya...
...she is selling it to me.
My heart pounded.
It was beautiful.
Pero sakto lang kasi ang dala kong pera.
Kaya dumukot na lang ako ng kaya kong mabigay na pera sa kanya.
Told her I can't buy the pair of earrings pero I'm giving the money as a love gift.
Alam mo ...
I had mixed emotions.
Feeling ko kasi na out of desperation, granny reached out to me just to save her grandkids' tummy as per her story.
But here's the truth...
I've encountered different stories of brokenness resulting to financial challenges recently inside my son's school.
I'd normally talk to anyone kasi who would catch my attention.
Kagaya noong mas shocking story ng isang bata na biglang lumapit sa amin ng anak ko during lunch time last last week.
She stood by my son's side, asked me If I'm his mom and simply told me:
"Ate, pahingi Php 10.00"
She added, "Di pa po kasi ako nakakain. Pambili lang po ng pastil."
Pastil here in our place is the rice na may meat strips sa taas.
And just like that lola's story today, binigyan ko ang bata even more than she asked di dahil sa nanghingi sya but because I was moved by her story.
As I asked further kasi why she's asking for money, I discovered na hiwalay ang parents nya.
Iniwan daw sila ng mama nya at may ibang pamilya na sa Manila while nagtatrabaho naman sa Gensan ang papa nila.
Basically, lola rin nila ang nag aalaga sa kanila.
Napaisip tuloy ako.
Buti na lang dakila ang mga lola ng both story na to.
Kaya naman masasabi ko that this granny's love story is normally what Depressed Cheated Women feel after betrayal.
There would be lot of fears and one of those fears is the financial matters.
Bilang isang Nanay, marami kang iisipin kagaya na lamang ng school tuition, health medication, pang araw2x na kakainin, clothing, pamasahe, and iba pang basic needs aside from the leisure na gusto mo pang mabigay sa anak mo as long as kaya mo.
And ramdam kita.
Kaya nga ganon na lang ang compassion ko kay lola who reminded me of our late grand mother.
Kagaya ng compassion and care to all Depressed Cheated Women like I was reason why I acted on God's instruction of going LIVE again.
It's simply to give more value and engage to you more student ko man or hindi.
Kaya if di mo pa napanood ang Healing After Cheating Advice LIVE Episode 1/100 natin...
And I hope may natutunan ka and hopefully maka engage kita next Sunday at 2-3pm for Episode 2.
Anyway, I have a very special announcement din mamayang gabi so... stay tuned to my next email.
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
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