Insecurity is a scary stuff…
There are a lot of Depressed Cheated Women who have this dilemma and don’t even realize they have it.
In some cases they’re aware of it, but they don’t realize how
serious it is.
But I tell you what… just because this lack of confidence sa sarili mo isn't impacting you in a major way today doesn't mean it won't become a serious problem in the long run.
Point is, putting off the fire while it's at its early stage will prevent major hassles and headaches in your future.
For example, fixing your low self-esteem today will put more opportunities in growing not only yourself but your relationship with anyone right away.
Another example:
Fixing a poor relationship between you and your husband despite your decision moving forward will prevent bitterness and toxic relationship mo at ng mga anak mo when their time is right.
Syempre, ma guide mo na sila ng tama as how to handle their relationship and avoid the same mistake as yours.
So that brings us to the next point:
Do YOU have this problem getting your self-confidence back after his betrayal?
To find out, answer the following questions:
- Tinatanong mo pa rin ba sarili mo kung bakit sya nag cheat sayo?
- Do you occasionally compare yourself to the Other Woman?
- Are you still hurt whenever you remember how he cheated on you?
- May trust issues ka pa rin ba?
- Wala pa rin bang clarity ang decision mo whether you can still give chances or hindi?
If you answered “yes” to at least 3 of the above questions,
then you’re at risk for developing some insecurity most especially in minding your superpower and value bilang asawa.
The good news is that it IS possible to put an end to this problem na pumapatay sa pagkatao mo.
Use these 3 tips as a good place to start:
- ASK him directly kung ano ang plano nya sayo at sa family mo. When he feels any doubt and you feel like he can't tell you straight about his plans... surely, hindi magiging maganda ang result ng chance na ibibigay mo.
- WRITE down any plans you decide moving forward. Trust me, writing it would make any sense moving forward.
- FOCUS on your own healing journey before dreaming of fixing your journey with him.
Healing as a couple would be a waste of time and... would take more time if di mo kayang e handle ang personal Healing After Cheating journey mo.
That's why I specialize in helping maximize personal Healing After Cheating first bago ang couples counseling.
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To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
P.S. Next time you’re going to discover a simple solution for getting back your inner powers, you won’t want to miss it. So make sure to not regret not checking this…
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