I always get the question kung paano ako nagsimula sa healing journey ko.
And for the very first time, I'll share to you the nitty-gritty details of how I started.
Medyo mahaba ang email na to kaya I hope basahin mo hanggang dulo.
May pasabog din ako na chika sayo kaya I hope maging masaya ang pasok ng December mo.
Well, it was 2019 when betrayal happened to me.
Sobrang lugmok ako non.
Siguro kung nakarami ka ng nabasa na emails ko, you must be familiar with my stories.
Nagsimula lang naman talaga ako sa isang pangarap.
Just like how I started my relationship.
Mabuting tao naman talaga ang papa ng anak ko.
Mapagmahal sya sa family nya at doon talaga ako napamahal sa kanya.
I knew that one day, when we start a family, he'd be that loving man to our family too.
But you see...
Fairy tale stories are hanging.
Pinapakita lang ang magandang wakas.
Pero in reality, after marriage, ang daming challenges that can cause you to change your beliefs about relationships.
Fact is, yung pangarap ko na fairy tale story... sa isang iglap sinubok ng bad witches sa paligid.
Pero kagaya ng mga bida sa pelikula, pangarap ko talaga ang block buster story lagi.
Yung kahit sobrang hirap, isusugal mo ang lahat just to have the victory.
Kaya naman sa lowest point ng buhay ko, sumugal ako.
Not a literal sugal though.
I mean, para sa personal healing ko noon, I took the risk of space.
If you're not yet aware, di kasi kami kasal ng papa ng anak ko.
Kaya dahil sa pride ko noon as the betrayed party at dahil na rin sa respeto ko sa sarili ko, I took the risk of raising our son alone.
Sa mga panahong yun, I discovered an eBook business.
I saw this coach on my feed promoting his expertise online about writing an ebook and selling it to help people solve their problem.
I subscribed to his email.
And just like you, I began to know his story, liked him and I felt connected to him.
Christian din kasi sya.
Plus, I really love writing. Pangarap ko maging author.
Kaya when I got in his private group and I met aspiring entrepreneurs, authors and coaches like me... it ignited the fire within me.
Iba talaga ang effect kapag nasa group of people ka na nakakaintindi ng struggles mo pati na ng goals and dreams mo.
To cut the long story short, my mentor taught me the right mindset not only to financial freedom but to healing as well.
Nagkaroon kasi ako ng goal para e level up ang sarili ko.
Yung goal ko na alam kong after I finish it, mas makikita ko ang worth ko while helping women like I was at the same time.
And true enough, since I founded the Godly Builders Fam, I found my true passion.
I met virtual friends and I learned from the stories of my students as well.
I feel blessed whenever they tell me about their progress.
Alam mo, naging much better rin kami ng papa ng anak ko.
He even supported me when I was building our FB Page which I didn't expect.
In short, I felt his support for the ministry I am building.
And you know, we made love again.
Pero alam mo ano ang twist ?
Malaki ang binago ni Lord sa pananaw ko sa buhay at relationship while I'm getting closer to Him.
Kahit sa relationship ko.
So just this year, I did the most courageous decision of my life.
I'm not so open about this sa FB Page.
Not even on my personal FB Wall.
But I'd been very transparent to my students since Day 1 including this very big decision.
And that's to finally stand sa decision ko to avoid pre-marital sex.
Napaka challenging.
Lalo na nasanay na ako.
Tapos may anak na kami.
Conviction kasi sa akin ni Lord yun since 2019 pa.
Nakipag bargain pa ako kay Lord pero this year, God moved me to stand on what is right.
I even told my students na di rin kasi kasal ang solution sa case namin.
I just did the right decision para sa long term goals ko for my relationship.
Anyway, marami ring consequences ang decision ko.
That includes parenting concerns, relationships sa family nya and lalo na sa papa ng anak ko.
You see...
It wasn't easy to follow God's calling, rebuke and instructions.
Pero alam mo, it's always beautiful.
And I'm even more joyful now compared to the comeback ko sa papa ng anak ko after his betrayal.
Mas may peace of mind rin ako.
And I'll leave this thing to you.
Marami kasi nagtatanong sa akin lagi thru email or even thru PM to confirm if tama ba ang ginagawa nya na decision or not after betrayal.
Simple lang naman ang sagot dyan.
You'll know what you're doing is right when at the end of the day, there's peace.
Parang pagtanim lang yan ng trees, vegetables or even flowers.
Will it produce good fruits or at least multiply?
Will this benefit you or transform your healthy food intake?
Will this make my surrounding be more attractive?
When you know the beautiful result after planting the seed, you'll not look at the effort or the value of the seed you're planting.
Instead, you'll have the vision for the harvest.
And speaking of sowing and planting...
I'm telling you not to miss planting your seed of inner transformation today.
When you sow that seed sa holistic healing mo while seeing the vision, you'll be motivated to wait for the harvest.
I'm sharing to you the good news na pwede ka mag sow ng seed mo para sa Healing After Cheating program in an installment starting today!
Our payment gateway have finally partnered with Billease.
BillEase is a buy now, pay later app that allows you to split your purchase in interest-free installments even without a debit or credit card!
And may promo sila na until today (Nov.30) only, you can have the option for a 6month installment instead of the 3-month installment na offer nila with us.
So if isa ka sa mga interested and nagtatanong sa akin about installment option ng HAC Program course with 52 weeks of GB Fam Membership, today is your best chance to sow your seed.
To your peace and joy,
FJ Lapera
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