Hi ,

I just thought to share this with you

A woman is ready to get married when she finds the right man. For a man, it is more complicated.

He will get married when he feels ready financially, emotionally, psychologically and otherwise.

Except if an external factor (eg Kayanmata or pregnancy) is compelling him to do otherwise.

This means that for a man, love is not enough. If he does not feel that he is ready, he will want to “fence off” the lady and keep building.

The problem here is that our tastes change with time. A lady that feels like the perfect match right now may feel like she does not fit into his life 5 years later.

Add that to the fact that novelty always seems more beautiful. What I mean is that “new thing dey always shak brain”

So after fencing her off for 5 years and denying her the opportunity of meeting other guys, a man may realize that he is better off with someone else and may want to take his best chances.

The real choice therefore happens when he is ready. The woman he meets when he is ready becomes the winner of his heart.

He will come up with any excuse to let his old crush go. He may put the blame on tribalism, his parents, his pastors, or anything else, but the truth is that his tastes have changed and he no longer sees her fitting into his current life.

I think ladies have learnt this trick from the mistakes of their older sisters and the average lady no longer marries the one she loves, but the one who is ready.

Who knows if the one she loves will still want her when he is ready?

This is the everyday interplay of trial and error that has filled the life of the average single.

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