Marriage is Responsibility.

You are taking responsibility for someone else. Then your family begins to grow and you add the responsibility of young humans who you must help interpret the world around them.

As a single person you are responsible for only yourself. You may even have parents and other older family members who are responsible for you.

Then you get married and you are hit with the reality that you are now responsible for yourself and another adult.

I know you want the baby girl life - you want to just live and enjoy life and be taken care of. That is not what happens in marriage.

I know you think once you get married you will just sit and have someone do everything your mother used to do for you as a child while you bring money - marriage is more than all that.

You are taking on new responsibilities. Sometimes they can be overwhelming. Sometimes they can be mind stretching but guess what?? The result is that you will grow.

Your capacity to manage your mind and emotions will increase. Your financial intelligence will improve. Virtually every area of your life will grow.

The more you grow, the happier it gets.

Whenever you find yourself unhappy, maybe there is an area you need to grow.

Find that area. Get knowledge in that area. Find those who are winning and know what is working for them. Get materials (books, videos etc) in that area and study them.

Talk to someone who may know better.

Your happiness is hidden in your growth.

Love ❤️ 

Ndu David