Hello all, here's the pick-a-card question for June: Where is my relationship headed? Take a deep breath and pick the first card you are drawn to. Scroll down for the results.
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If you chose Card #1 - The relationship in question will take work on your part, if you want to continue with it.
I can see that some of you have been struggling with your partners--possibly there have been numerous fights, arguments, or obstacles. Maybe you're at a standstill in your relationship. Don't lose hope; this relationship can evolve into something more loving and stable, but patience is called for. Think of the goal as the end of a marathon--it will take time and effort, but it could be worth it in the long run. It will be rewarding if you stick with it, even if that means you might have to compromise on things you are fighting over.
However, the choice is yours as to whether or not you want to continue to put in the work. Possibly you feel that your partner just isn't putting in enough effort, and if this is the case, speak up about your needs. Communicate clearly about how you feel. Spirit advises you to give this relationship all you've got, and urge your partner to also go all in.
If you chose Card #2 - You may have a wandering eye or are considering your options; possibly you have considered leaving your partner or even being unfaithful to them.
There's something about this relationship that can be very healing for you, so look into what is making you uncomfortable about the other person. Why are you considering breaking things off? What is it that's not working? The answers have more to do with YOU than with them.
Spirit advises to really dig deep into your motives because whatever you don't heal or become aware of with this relationship, will just transfer over to someone else. In other words, you'll be dealing with these same feelings even if you move on to another relationship. This is a pattern you are being challenged to break.
As well, you may soon be tempted (or have already been tempted) by someone you think is "better" than your current partner, but all that glitters isn't gold. Your relationship jumping is not actually solving any problems, only putting band-aids over a deep wound. If you don't allow this wound to heal, it will only fester and rot, making you sick and unfulfilled. Get to the root of your motives to understand yourself better, and break this cycle.
If you chose Card #3 - You are causing your own suffering in this relationship; there are no problems other than the ones you perceive.
Sure every relationship goes through its challenges and obstacles, but you are making mountains out of molehills, and it's only keeping you stuck in these negative mind patterns. You may even be self-sabotaging your relationship. This deep insecurity you face will only worsen if you don't address it, and it won't matter who you are in a relationship with--it's not them, it's you.
I get the sense you feel inadequate in the relationship, maybe even feeling undeserving of this love. Maybe you are plagued by thoughts that you'll fuck things up and cause them to leave you...you might be counting down the days til they go. Spirit wants you to know that there's hope, and there's no need to go through this anguish. You may have been hurt in the past, but not every relationship will be the same.
If you feel your current relationship is great, other than your paranoia, then Spirit urges you to be less in your head and more in your body. Follow your emotions rather than your thoughts. How does your significant other make you feel? How do you want them to feel about you? Allow your emotions and intuition to be your guide, rather than logic--your mind is only playing tricks on you right now, and will not be any help. Let pleasure in your body show you the way.
If you are in a current relationship that you feel trapped in because you don't think you'll find anyone better, Spirit wants you to know that this is an illusion. As soon as you can break yourself free from this perception, you'll see that you are very much worthy of good love. In this case, you are being urged to cut ties with this person and with this thought-pattern, and then you'll be led towards something more fulfilling for you. Let your emotions help you make the best decisions for you, not your thoughts.
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