Hello all, here's the pick-a-card question for April: How can there be more harmony in my relationships? Take a deep breath and pick the first card that you are drawn to.
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If you chose Card #1 - Cherish
Take greater pride in the people you love in your life and learn to value them more. This is about showing them you care with gestures of love and kindness. Let your love language be about the action you take for your loved ones; letting them know you love and care for them. Speaking in a kinder way to them. Complimenting them. Go out of your way to let them know how much they mean to you.
Public displays of affection are encouraged, such as holding hands, giving them hugs, cooking for them. Maybe you are someone who is more reserved with their affection or you just assume your loved ones know you love them; there will be greater harmony once you can learn to display your love for them more. In turn, you will also notice a wonderful shift in how your loved ones interact with you. Go the distance for your loved ones.
If you chose Card #2 - Communicate
Clear communication will be a great asset for you in helping to create more harmony in your relationships. Don't assume people know what you're saying; spell it out for them--let there be no room for interpretation (or misinterpretation).
If you're one to hold a lot on the inside, then this month's message is asking you to consider speaking up more about your needs--your loved ones won't automatically know when you're feeling down or need help. Speak your truth.
As well, try to communicate with the facts. Try your best to not inject so much emotional considerations when you are speaking to your loved ones. You may usually speak from a place of how you feel, without necessarily considering how the other person feels. So rather than blurt whatever comes to mind, be more discerning of your tone and timing. Be more strategic with your words. Think about what the end goal for the conversation is.
If you chose Card #3 - Contribute
Your loved ones may appreciate greater contributions on your part. It could be pitching in more to pay the bills, or contributing in other ways such as buying groceries, cleaning or cooking more. Actions speak louder than words, so be sure your actions also show how much you care for the people in your life.
As well, pay more attention to what your loved ones have to tell you. Read between the lines. Sometimes you have to listen more than speak, so you can really understand what someone is trying to tell you. Add value to your conversations by contributing any wisdom you could share, when the timing is right. Don't just spew out judgement and what you think they should do, if you are asked to offer advice.
Pay more attention to where in your relationships you can add greater value. Speak less and listen more, to receive a greater sense of calm all around you.
Let me know if this month's reading resonated with you. I love all responses!
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