The Blue-Haired Catalyst: Mrs. Thompson's Lesson in Radical Acceptance

Aug 16, 2024 12:43 am

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Imagine a small, traditional church in a quiet suburban neighborhood. For years, the congregation has been relatively homogeneous - mostly older, middle-class families who've attended for generations. The church has been struggling with declining membership and is known in the community for being somewhat unwelcoming to outsiders.


One Sunday, a young man named Jake walks in. He's covered in tattoos, has multiple piercings, and his hair is dyed bright blue. As he takes a seat in the back pew, you can feel the tension in the air. Some members cast disapproving glances, while others whisper among themselves.


But sitting near Jake is Mrs. Thompson, a 75-year-old widow who's been a member of the church for over 50 years. To everyone's surprise, Mrs. Thompson gets up from her usual seat and moves to sit right next to Jake. She smiles warmly, introduces herself, and hands him a hymnal, helping him find the right page.


Throughout the service, Mrs. Thompson quietly explains parts of it to Jake, making sure he feels included. After the service, she invites him to join her for coffee hour, introducing him to other members and sharing stories about the church's history and mission work.


As weeks go by, Jake becomes a regular attendee. Inspired by Mrs. Thompson's example, other members start to open up to him. They learn that Jake is a talented artist who volunteers at a local youth center. He begins to use his skills to help design flyers for church events and even starts a mural project in the Sunday School rooms.


Jake's presence begins to transform the church. More young people start attending, attracted by the church's newfound openness. The congregation starts to engage more with the community, partnering with Jake's youth center. The church that was once dying begins to thrive with new energy and diversity.

This story illustrates Romans 15:7, which says, "Accept one another, then, just as Christ accepted you, in order to bring praise to God."


Mrs. Thompson exemplified this verse by accepting Jake without judgment, just as he was. She didn't wait for Jake to change his appearance or conform to the church's norms. Instead, she welcomed him immediately, reflecting Christ's unconditional acceptance of us.


Her actions remind us that accepting others isn't just about tolerating their presence. It's about actively welcoming them, helping them feel included, and valuing their unique gifts and perspectives. Mrs. Thompson's acceptance of Jake not only changed his life but also revitalized the entire congregation.


In the same way, Christ accepts us not because we've earned it or because we fit a certain mold, but simply because of His great love. And just as Christ's acceptance transforms us, our acceptance of others can have a profound impact, both on individuals and on our entire faith community.


When we truly accept one another as Christ accepted us, we create a church that reflects God's love and grace to the world. We break down barriers, challenge prejudices, and create a community where all people can experience God's love and grow in faith together.



Exegesis of Romans 15:7:


"Therefore welcome one another as Christ has welcomed you, for the glory of God." (ESV)


Original Greek: "διὸ προσλαμβάνεσθε ἀλλήλους, καθὼς καὶ ὁ Χριστὸς προσελάβετο ὑμᾶς, εἰς δόξαν τοῦ θεοῦ."


  1. "Therefore" (διὸ - dio): This conjunction links this verse to the preceding arguments Paul has made about unity and mutual edification in the church.
  2. "Welcome" (προσλαμβάνεσθε - proslambanesthe): This verb means more than just to receive or accept. It carries the connotation of actively taking someone to oneself, embracing them, or bringing them into fellowship. It's in the present imperative, indicating an ongoing action.
  3. "One another" (ἀλλήλους - allēlous): This reciprocal pronoun emphasizes the mutual nature of this welcome. It's not just one group welcoming another, but all believers welcoming each other.
  4. "As Christ has welcomed you" (καθὼς καὶ ὁ Χριστὸς προσελάβετο ὑμᾶς): This sets Christ's welcome as the standard and model for our own. The aorist tense of "welcomed" (προσελάβετο) points to the definitive act of Christ's acceptance of believers.
  5. "For the glory of God" (εἰς δόξαν τοῦ θεοῦ): This phrase indicates the ultimate purpose of this mutual acceptance. It's not just for our benefit, but to bring glory to God.


Contextual Interpretation: This verse comes in a section where Paul is addressing the relationships between Jewish and Gentile Christians in Rome. He's urging them to move past their differences and to accept one another, just as Christ has accepted them all, regardless of their backgrounds. Romans 15:7 is a powerful call to unity and mutual acceptance within the church, grounded in Christ's own acceptance of us and aimed at glorifying God.

 

Reflection Questions:

  1. How does Christ's acceptance of me challenge my attitudes towards others who are different from me?
  2. In what ways might I be creating barriers to acceptance in my church or community?
  3. How can my acceptance of others bring praise to God?
  4. What personal prejudices or biases do I need to confront to fully live out this verse?
  5. How does this verse challenge our church's approach to inclusivity and diversity?


Practical Applications:

  1. Intentionally welcome and engage with people who are different from you in your church community.
  2. Organize small group discussions on the topic of acceptance and unity in diversity. (Christian Liberty)
  3. Practice active listening when engaging with people who have different viewpoints or backgrounds on the peripheral doctrines.
  4. Participate in or organize cross-cultural events or exchanges to broaden understanding and acceptance.
  5. Regularly pray for God to reveal any hidden biases or prejudices in your heart.
  6. Seek to understand and appreciate the cultural or personal backgrounds of others in your congregation.



Heavenly Father,

We come before You humbled by the depth of Your acceptance of us through Christ. We confess that too often we fall short in accepting others as You have accepted us.


Lord, open our eyes to see others as You see them. Soften our hearts to embrace those who are different from us. Give us the courage to break down barriers of prejudice and misunderstanding.


Help us, O God, to create communities that reflect Your unconditional love and acceptance. May our unity in diversity bring praise to Your name and draw others to Your grace.


Forgive us for the times we've excluded others or harbored judgmental attitudes. Transform our minds and hearts to align with Your will for unity among Your people.


Grant us wisdom and discernment as we seek to apply this truth in our daily lives. May our acceptance of one another be a powerful testimony to Your love and grace.


We pray this in the name of Jesus Christ, who accepted us and reconciled us to You.


Amen.

 

Comments
avatar Cathy Jewell
I enjoy getting these during the week. Not only are they informative, but it makes me feel connected with the church more often during the week.