Why it pays to be RUDE.
Mar 20, 2023 7:00 pm
Morning
I know you're already getting sensitive.
But read the email first.
And if you don't like it.
UNSUBSCRIBE.
But what I'm going to write about today has proven to be very-very valuable.
Especially once you start generating leads in a bulk.
What's that?
Learn to use "your inner bastard".
It's the most brutal part of your dark side.
That part of you that's cold as fuck...
But you probably still don't have the courage to let it out...
Because we've been taught to tame our dark side.
Of course, there's a lot of talk about being positive…
Or always bringing the "positive energy".
Yet, you and I know in this crazed world of ours...
You need that "fuck you" energy too.
And even your dearest folks should feel it when need be.
There are many real-life scenarios where you just gotta let your inner bastard come through...
Whether its deliberately defying the expectations of people who think they can tell you how to run your life ...
Cutting people off when you have to ...
Or letting them know there's lines they can't cross.
But perhaps, one of the most important is that ... people need to know it's not your job to clean up their mess.
Brutal.
My point?
If you don't make it abundantly clear, people will keep thinking its your job to clean up their mess...
That they can drag you into needless drama...
Or that they can get away with anything.
And I can tell you from personal experience...
This sort of thing (if you keep letting it happen)...
Has far-reaching implications for your mental health.
What to do then?
Well, a simple way to start is to set boundaries...
AND ENFORCE THEM!
"Yep, I love you, but these are the lines, don't cross em."
To take it a step further...
Look at different areas of your life where you're getting the most emotional stress.
Then do the needful.
You won't necessarily feel great afterwards...
Guilt and remorse will kick in.
But what you'll notice over time is that....
You'll have managed to shed loads and loads of human dead-weight (people who contribute nada to your life and drain you emotionally)...
All while improving your inner peace / mental health...
And building a strong support system.
Once you start generating leads by the bulk.
You'll notice that some of those leads are out to stress your life.
In this case let your INNER BASTARD out.
That's all for today.
PBUY
Benson
P.S: I'm not saying don't forgive errors. All I'm "suggesting" is to let your inner bastard come through when need be.