, Here's the thing:

You can be head over heels in love with someone (for example a woman).

I mean:

Madly, genuinely, "I'm not thinking straight, I fit die on top your matter" in love with her....

For you:

SEX is not even the primary motivator… (even though she's super hot... and

you've often imagined kissing her soft lips and running your hands thru her

spotless thighs .... while she moans in your ears... )

You're ready to build a lasting relationship with her.

On God, You'd do everything in your power to help her grow:

Mentally,

Financially,

Spiritually,

And career-wise.

You've told her how you feel (in action, and in words....)

Again and again and again…

But Damn....

This woman doesn't feel the same way about you.

She's madly in love with someone else (Who doesn't feel the same way about her)

She'd move the heavens and the earth to be with this guy…

But he's madly in love with another woman (Who doesn't feel the same way about him...)

And that woman is madly in love with another guy (Who doesn't feel the same way about her..)

And that guy is madly in love with another woman (Who doesn't feel the same way about him...)

Round and round and round…

Very few people on earth end up with the person they really want to be with…

My point is:

We all have to settle at some point.

You either just move on and try to love the one who's really into you (This may take a while to get over.... and you'll be battling with envy and grief because it just feels like ... someone's getting what you're dying for on a platter...)

Or you settle with someone in the interim,

While hoping and praying that ... maybe someday,

Your true starts feeling same way about you and comes around.

Reality check:

That may never happen.

Anyway, whatever you do,

It helps to stay in touch with reality.

And when you're in love with someone who doesn't feel the same way about you

It doesn't mean there's something wrong with you

It just means they' don't feel intimate love towards you....

Or they're not emotionally available for what you're asking

Or they don't feel they have the emotional capacity to get into an intimate relationship with you

And that's fine.

Don't overthink it.

Move on.

Now I know you're waiting to see how I'll transition into a sales pitch…

You want to see how I'll LINK to seemingly unrelated topics to make a sale.

Big head, see your eye

I'm not transitioning anything

Sue me.

But come with a good lawyer.

PBUY

Benson

P.S: If you're really into someone,

I think you should tell them how you feel doesn't matter if you're a man or woman.

I mean, find time to hang out with them privately,

Tell them about your feelings…

And how you'd love to be in an intimate relationship with them…

Then ask them if they feel the same way or how they feel about you.

At worst, they'll say they don't feel the same way.

Nothing spoil.

At least, you tried

But to bottle your feelings on the assumption that they don't feel the same

way?

Nah mehn!

That's some shit you may end up regretting.

Sometimes, people are just waiting for you to say it first.

Just do it.

Is there a Copywriting lesson here?

Well, here's something to chew on:

In the next 12-24hours, this email is going to have a near 50% open rate.

Look at the subject-line and you'll understand why.

If I wanted to sell something here…

All I'd have to do is connect the dots to what I'm selling.

Keywords: Connect the dots.

Any more Copywriting lessons?

Well, what do you think?

Look in-between the lines,

From start to finish

Who knows, you may find something worth finding.

Enjoy your sunday