Two days ago, I came across a YouTube video... 

By Dr. Robert Waldinger - a clinical professor at Havard Medical School.

He is the director Havard Study Of Adult Development -one of the world's longest studies of adult life.

They have been studying the human brain for 75 years. 

Alongside, studying the health trajectories and the broader lives of humans (owners of the brain). Including their triumphs and failures in careers and marriage.

Why is this important to you?

Well, I'd get there soon.

But just before I go into that.

Much more important to talk about is the reason for this research.

And that is to discover what makes humans happy.

Is it money? Fame? Getting fit? Or keeping baddies (for the men).

They wanted to find out what really makes us happy.

Good news is...

They have come to the conclusion that:

"Close relationships, more than money or fame, are what keep people happy throughout their lives".

Dr. Robert said further that...

“Quality relationships protect people from discontent, help to delay mental & physical decline and are better predictors of long and happy lives than social class, IQ or even genes”.

Throughout my life, I have always assumed that… making more money OR becoming famous would make me happy.

And I have always done everything humanly possible to pursue that.

I used to believe that the happiest people on earth are found amongst the rich and the famous.

But this shocking research is about to change my perspective.

I feel this Havard professor is sort of right. Pardon my choice of words. Cuz, I'm still finding it hard to come to terms with his conclusion.

There have been moments in my life when my account is fully stacked up. Hovering around some decent six figures. My Business doing just fine. But within me is this feeling of emptiness I can't explain.

On the other hand, by my nature, I nag at everything & everybody anytime I'm broke.

Nothing else makes sense to me once my account balance reads DANGER.

Not the presence of my parents.

Not the words of my loved ones.

Not the cheers from my friends.

Absolutely nothing!!!

This is sort of the reason why at my big age, I don't have a girlfriend. And I've never had a serious relationship. (Details about that some other time).

My mood swings at any difficulty in my finances.

It’s so bad that I won't reply to calls, texts, or Whatsapp messages until I can stand on my feet. Which usually takes weeks. Or sometimes spill into months 

So I don’t really know which side of the conversation I am right now.

So I wanna ask you.

Does money really humans happy?

Yes, I'm asking you. You reading this.

What makes you happy?

Will be good to hear from you

PS: I'm still in the business of teaching people how to generate quality leads using TikTok Influencers. If you're interested, hurry up here now before I increase the price. Remember, Only making money makes me happy. Hahahaha