One word may never want to hear is 'No'.

You don't want to hear No when you approach that highly placed person to mentor you.

You don't want to hear No when you seek for supports in a certain area of life.

You hate to be told No by a young lady you admire so much and choose to get serious with.

You hate to be told No when you put up a product or service to sell.

As humans, we truly don't love that word, NO. We hate and detest it so much that we would want to say NO to NOs.

I was not given a chance many times. Some looked at me like I would not rise except this and that. I had many reasons to sit down crying and just sympathize with the kinds of replies and reactions people gave me.

I got promised great things but ended up disappointed. I saw things I could do well but was not granted the chance to do it.

You may be in that phase also now which is why you need this post. There is an exact system you can make use of to turn those NOs to your advantage.

Here is the real deal - There is a way to make use of your NOs in achieving massive results and turning them around to change your life 360°.

When you are told NO in an area of life, the next action to take is not cry ( I know it hurts) but settle down to see how you approached it, learn how you should have approached it better.

Give it another try using the new approach and keep figuring it out until you get results.

That way, you are learning.

While you learn through the process, make sure you document them and figure which works out best.

When you have gotten results repeatedly, turn your experiences into a book, course or program. Teach it and let others produce results with it as they shorten their journey to where you are. You can even become rich doing so.

What were the things that inspired you the most?

The NOs of men and women who made yeses out of them. Many of them rose up as stars after multiple rejections.

This was what comprised some lessons I shared in my book, 30 Lessons Life Taught Me Before 30 ( bit.ly/30LessonsBefo30 ) that got many to transform their lives on time and become serious with their lives.

Stop making NOs become superior to you, use them and get results.

It is not the response you got that is your problem but how you used them to earn a better life.

Hold this as long as you can and you will understand why this matters so much.

We will be wise!

Abiodun Mustapha

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