, I perfectly understand right now you may be at a point where you feel tired and frustrated because you seem not to be doing so much with your life as you expect.

You look at the news feed on Facebook and see a used-to-be colleague of yours who has now become a public speaker and selling some online course.

You scroll through your Instagram feeds and behold the pictures of a younger person than you already making some waves with the display of some exotic cars.

You may be feeling intimidated by the followers and the number of reactions gathered by someone you seem to have called unserious while yours with valuable contents get less.

Maybe you even remember right now how you seem to have appeared like you were going to be highly successful because of your academic performances and awards but it is not so now.

I sincerely understand how this can be so intimidating and sometimes make you feel so angry if you don't have some level of understanding to bail yourself out.

This is currently 11:00 PM (WAT) I am sending this mail to you, because I believe strongly you will need this for a long time.

You must always come to a realisation that the problem around where you are right now is not the actual problem but your focus.

While I was having a personal conversation with a younger friend of mine, I mentioned to her that majority of the people who get celebrated are the most focused people who choose not to be distracted from the main things.

When you look so much at the results and outcomes around a person's life, you will miss the process of replicating it in your life.

You may consider the age, the essentials, the awards and rewards but if you neglect the process, you will still remain at the same level you are.

, start focusing on the right things in your life and the correct matters to you other than the things that limit you instead of motivating you.

You have an embodiment of a unique gift yet to be expressed, a fresh possibility no one has seen and fulfilment you can experience but they are wrapped in the box of your distractions.

When you break the distractions, you will explore them and be glad at the results.

More often, shut down from social media once in a while. Stay away from appearing every where. Discipline yourself to come into an inner world you create for yourself where you can behold clearly the possibilities present in you. Then, build capacity to make them happen.

Always know this, , I sincerely honour and desire to see you become the best version of yourself.

Believe in yourself always.

PS: I will be having a session tomorrow, 27th April, 2021 at 9 PM with Niyi Soyinka to show you how you can start earning a fee from the things you do for free. Don't miss out by joining my Telegram channel for notification

Abiodun Mustapha.

Personal Development Expert | Educator |

Founder, Growth Hub Community

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